In most states, you cannot ask for spousal support after the divorce is final. That's true regardless of whether the spouses discussed it formally. However, there may be some exceptions. You may still be able to get spousal support if:
- The other spouse was hiding assets or otherwise defrauding you during divorce.
- You had a reasonable fear of the other spouse (usually because of domestic violence).
- The court made a mistake.
If your former spouse is willing to make payments to you without a court order, that's fine. But it's best to get the agreement in writing, because it will be impossible to enforce. Before you make decisions on this, it's best to consult a spousal support lawyer for advice. |
